YouKnowYouDeadAzzWrong: Episode #10159 - Question of the Day
Episode #10159 - Question of the Day
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN A NEW BUT SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE AND THEY FOUND OUT THEY WERE PREGNANT BY THEIR EX OR HAD GOTTEN THEIR EX PREGNANT A FEW MONTHS AGO??? WOULD YOU LEAVE THEM ALONE OR WOULD YOU STAY??
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Have times gotten so hard that we have to deal with people's unfinished business? The key word is "new" relationship. If a "new" relationship is serious already, methinks you're doing too much. If it's meant to be, let the other person work on their issues and come back at you (yes, at) with a clean slate and a clear conscious.
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I agree with everything you said Shay. And why should i have to accept any old thing? I gotta come third in line behind your "ex" and your new born? No, thank you. I can't do that Melanie/Derwin shit. She having your baby, maybe ya'll need to figure that out without me.
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No I would not stay. I would wish the person well and hope that they could work on building their family. On the other side...why would a person want the "new" person to stay? it's a really unfair predicament.
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Goodness gracious, lawd! Stuff like this makes my head hurt! Ok, clearly the person getting pregnant, or the sperm donator, is NOT READY FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP, LET ALONE A SERIOUS ONE, AND IN 3 MONTHS TO BOOT! People, clean house and finish your business with your old b/f or g/f before moving on. Ask the right questions about past relationships and their status. Is it over, have you moved on, does the other person know that it's over and you have moved on? Ask the questions and dont be afraid to walk away and decline anything further with the potential with unfinished business. Its just drama waiting to happen! TO ANSWER THE QUESTION, YOU NEED TO LEAVE!!! NO STAYING. See, this is why people need to take the time to get to know people before becoming "serious". It wont eliminate all issues, but it will give you the chance to let situations unfold, and true character traits to come to light before you get waaaay to involved. Use your heads, look before you leap, and dont be so afraid to be alone or desperate for someone that you disregard obvious signs of messiness in the other person.
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"New,but serious"...pregnant a few months ago...did this "pregnancy or impregnation take place during this new, but serious relationship? If so, there is another relationship damning situation. SMDH!
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I agree with No Words, and this is why people need to wait to have sex.. because you never know how long you are going to be with one person then, oop! All of a sudden you are dating someone else
If I was in that sitiation it would have to be over, its too fresh and I'm not dealing with some baby-mama, baby-daddy drama.
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Wow. That's one hell of a situation. On one hand, I could say that I can't punish someone else for something that happened before me, but at the same time, why the hell would we be "serious" after a few months? Personally, if you are "serious" about me after a few months, I either have some psychological questionnaire papers for you to fill out, or you're just booted. That's nonsense, and I don't have time for it. Also, that shows that I am that "rebound", and that you haven't fully faced your feelings over the breakup of you, and the dude you let knock you up with that unprotected "goodbye" sex. Even if she decided not to keep the child, I would still have to cut my ties with her, because that's called a surprise, and I don't like those kinds of surprises. "Surprise! Get the fuck out my house!" Yeah. Get your affairs in order before you go getting yourself into another relationship.
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I dunno. We'd have to sit down and have a serious talk about what she wanted to do... That'd definitely put the relationship through a test. I'd have to really love her to stick around cause another dude's kid is drama waiting to happen.
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Yeah, I'd be soooo outta there!!!
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wow, this situation actually happened to me back in the day. I stayed with him because I was only 19 and he was my first boyfriend so you know I was excited....young,dumb, but excited nonetheless. The ex was 5 months pregnant, and our relationship was very fresh at about 3 months. Too bad I later found out that he was cheating on me with multiple partners, with his "ex" being one of them. I did a lot of growing during that time of my life, and it's sad to say that I would NOT be able to stay and deal with that mess again. Not my concern and not my problem. DEFINITELY not at this point in my life, and not only after a few months! Shoot, the first 3 months is the probationary period for me. You can be dropped at any moment in that time because i'm still feeling you out and seeing if you're the real deal,and not a waste of time.
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Having been in that situation, I would advise you to get the hell out. The ex is going to use the baby as a reason to always get in between you and the girl, and no, you can't work anything out with em. Bounce!
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I just hope you could make another post related to this. This is definitely good blog.
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no way in hell id date a knocked up chick to me a chick trying to fuck a dude or date a dude (other than the guy she is knocked up by) is sick just means shes either a one night stand who dont know how to use fucking birth control, or she cant keep a man either way knowcked up bitches and hoes with kids are a no no exucse me a HELL NO
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Okay I will say this cause ya'll know I can be a little ignant but hey thats what makes me - me, hate it or love it...
If I find out she already preggers....I dont know I might keep her around cause that pregnant pussy is banana's...but wont be no relationship, you have more important priorities and I am not one of them and she needs to focus of everything else but a man
Oh and ladies please dont do either, cause no matter how much a man might hate his baby Mama, he still gonna hit until the baby is 6 months to a 1 years old...its fact not fiction...trust me
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Agreed!!!
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I would stay . That happend to me before .
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